me:
i don't want it to be serious. i just want him to be like how he used to be.
x:
if you want him to be like how he used to be, don't be tripping whether "he used to ask me to go everywhere with him now he just doesn't", that's a BF's job. you're being selfish if you do. you go on dates and he doesn't. he can't take you around at times cos he wants to meet girls.
me:
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x:
you got used to how close he was to you in the first few months, and it's not supposed to be like that.
probably right now he doesn't want everything to be all you, he wants to be out there..
you got to get used to what fwb's like, that shit only stays in the bedroom. outside ya'll are just friends. you'll be tripping when you mix emotion into it.
me:
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x:
so yeah, answer is no. it's not healthy. you're being jealous that he aint treating you the same. why be upset when he's not. read the contract. quit bringing up fights.
fwb's supposed to be taking care of each other needs, no strings attached.. drama,etc.
