Random: I hate pretentious Captain Save a Hos.
You know. I really hate it when a guy is asked a simple question like, “Do you like a cute face or hot body?” and they answer with, “Neither. It’s the personality that counts.”
Oh gag me with a cock.
First of all, it’s an “A or B” question you pussy and secondly, we live in a world where it’s so shallow that it’s supposedly right to be ‘anti-shallow.’ Please find a healthy medium.
If you’re THAT guy, please note the following:
There is something intensely self loathing and selfish about a person if you’re too good to work on your outer appearance.
It’s like when girls want to wear sweatpants or not match. It’s not being “low maintenance”. It’s called lazy. It takes the same amount of time to put on a matching shirt than a non-matching one. Or are you too pretentious and soooo above it that you can’t make the effort? Because you have a heart of gold?
A partner with a “great” personality would want to look and be the best on all accounts - mentally, emotionally, and physically. Because that’s why people with great personalities do - strive to be the best they can be.
That’s the problem. You want to deny looks have anything to do with personality. You want to write off anything regarding looks as ‘superficial’ and you’re SO above it. But when in reality. it goes hand in hand. You read books, go to school to improve your mind and inner self. You go to the gym, eat healthy, dress well to improve your outer self. Why would anyone be so pretentious to value one over the other when it’s truthfully equally important to being a well balanced being?
If looks didn’t matter, I’d dare you to take a smart, funny, and kind five legged midget over a equally smart, funny, and kind lady that you find gorgeous.
